Facing The Failure

"People are always blaming their circumstances for what they are. I do not believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and, if they can not find them, make them ". George Bernard Shaw



Wise proverb says that failure is a learning process to go through. Without a failure, the name of success will never be found. Edison is a real example. After thousands of times a failure to discover electricity, he finally succeeded. The true winner is a winner who can tolerate the failure of experienced and strive to achieve success rather than surrender to the situation. In addition, success will be achieved if someone dared to take risks and not worry about losing / failure. "Failures are divided into two classes - those who thought and never did, and those who did and never thought" John Charles Salak.

DEALING WITH FAILURE

Be aware that:

1. Failure is a learning process. Should, reaction arising dikala failed, not blame someone - anyone else but the self through introspection. This method, will lead to:

* A deep desire to know "why" this failure occurred. Once known to cause the failure to find a solution to this do not happen again. "It is wise to keep in mind that no success or failure is necessarily final" Anonymous
* Standard reference materials as a basis for the future, failure can be minimized or not to happen again. "In order to succeed, you must first be willing to fail" Anonymous
* Success as a result of the want / dare to face the failure of the analysis / evaluation and repair. "Success is not permanent. The same is also true of failure" Dell Crossword

Indirectly, the failure also teaches us that the path traveled is the wrong path. All, depends on ourselves, to give up or move on. If you give meaning to the name at any time in the success of "only" would be a dream - dream would never be - realisirkan. "Yesterday's failures are today's seeds. That must be diligently planted to be able to abundantly harvest Tomorrow's Success" Anonymous

2. Failure is one step toward success. Without experiencing failure, one would be difficult to determine next steps. With the failure, one will know for sure that this point is justified while the track was not justified (because it has never failed). Whether a failure will always be negative connotations or not, is determined by our attitude dikala deal. If faced with the connotation potitif attitude will be positive because of the improvement and vice versa. "Your failures will not hurt you until you start blaming them on others" Anonymous.

3. Failure does not mean the end of everything - everything. With experienced failure, usually will make someone more mature, and alert / introspective. Each step or action will be in "filter" over and over - time to avoid it - it is not desirable. "Keep in mind that neither success nor failure is ever final" Roger Ward Babson

Conclusion:

Failure is not something dreaded or avoided but must be faced. Through the failure, what would his name found success. Do not give up and surrender, that is the key to deal with failure. "When one door closes another door opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us" Alexander Graham Bell.

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